I’m Hannah Harvey

Over the past five years, using the tools you’re going to learn in the 4M system, I’ve helped thousands of women transform their divorce and life through my bestselling book How to Divorce Sober, my podcast Happily Ever After, and my Magic Divorce Club community.

My work has reached tens of thousands of women around the world, helping them go from fear and chaos to calm confidence and hope.

I’m a certified yoga and meditation teacher trained in somatic and emotional healing, and I’ve spent years refining what actually helps divorcing women, deep in conflict, to quickly feel hopeful and emotionally steady; able to handle challenges with strength, compassion, and self-trust.

That’s how the 4M System was born as a simple, practical framework built around four pillars that change everything:

🌷 Mastering Emotions – Calm the chaos and steady yourself in moments of stress.
🌷 Mindset – Shift from fear and self-doubt to calm confidence.
🌷 Motherhood – Value your role so you can parent with peace and strength, even through conflict.
🌷 Money – Update old beliefs so you create safety and stability for your future.

This isn’t theory. It’s the same framework that’s helped my clients save thousands by slowing down, staying calm, and making decisions they won’t later regret.

Is now is really the right time?

When you’re in the middle of divorce, it can feel like you barely have the energy to get through the day, let alone take on something new.

You might be thinking, “I just don’t have the time or headspace for a course right now.”

I've designed this program to fit your real life. The 4M System isn’t about adding more to your to-do list — it’s about taking things off it. You’ll learn short, powerful tools that help you calm your emotions in minutes, so you can think clearly and feel stronger through everything else you’re juggling.

Maybe you’re also thinking, “My situation is different — will this really work for me?”

Every divorce has its own challenges, which is why you won’t be doing this alone. You’ll have a private 1:1 mentoring session with me during the program, so we can focus on your unique circumstances and help you apply the tools in a way that truly supports you.

If you’re worrying about money — I completely understand. 

Every penny counts right now. Legal fees, moving costs, and the uncertainty of what’s ahead can make investing in yourself feel impossible.

But here’s the truth: 

The 4M System isn’t another expense. It’s a tool that will save you money.

When you learn to calm your emotions and make clear, grounded decisions, you stop the costly spiral.

You’ll:

• Communicate better with your solicitor,
• Avoid reactive choices that drain your resources, and
• Start protecting both your financial and emotional energy from day one.

If there’s a part of you whispering, “What if I invest in myself and it doesn’t work?”

I get that, too.

That’s why I offer a 100% risk-free guarantee.

You’ll have 14 days from the start of the program to experience it for yourself — and if it’s not the right fit, you’ll receive a full refund. No questions, no pressure, just care. 

I know how scary it feels to invest in yourself when so much already feels uncertain. Perhaps you've tried things before and they've not worked. You might even feel shame around getting help, believing you should be able to handle it all on your own.

But remember, YOU are the golden goose in your divorce.

Who’s looking after you?

What happens if you fall apart?

It takes a village to get through divorce, and there are no medals for doing it alone. Only burnout and NO Golden Eggs.

There’s an incredible freedom that comes when you finally see the value in choosing your peace, your power, and your future.

✨ Magic happens when you choose yourself and I cannot wait to see what you do next.

Here’s How We’ll Do It Together

The 4M System for Emotional Transformation is a five-week live program that gently guides you from fear and overwhelm to calm, confidence, and clarity.

It’s not another course that sits unfinished in your inbox. It’s a structured, nurturing journey that helps you feel better right away — with tools you can use in real time, even on the hardest days.

Each week, you’ll receive short recorded lessons and calming practices to support you before we meet for a live, 60-minute group session.

These sessions are where real change happens — a mix of teaching, reflection, and heartfelt conversation, designed to help you integrate what you’re learning and feel seen, supported, and stronger.

Over five weeks, we’ll walk through the 4M Framework together:

🌷 Mastering Emotions — Calm the chaos and steady your body and mind, even in moments of stress or conflict.
🌷 Mindset — Replace fear and self-doubt with grounded confidence so you can make decisions you feel proud of.
🌷 Motherhood — Parent with peace and power, even if your ex is unpredictable. Create rituals that value your role andhelp your children feel safe and secure.
🌷 Money — Move from fear to clarity. Learn to advocate for yourself and start building emotional and financial stability for your future.

And you’ll create your 6-Month Emotional Freedom Plan

Create a personalised roadmap to help you stay calm, confident, and connected long after the program ends.

​​Spaces are limited for this live round to keep the group small and personal.

Once those places are filled — or when the cart closes at 9pm on 13 November — enrolment will be closed until next year so don’t miss this opportunity to transform your emotions.

Why This Works

Most divorce support focuses only on the legal or financial side.

But as I learned during my own high-conflict divorce — the real transformation happens when you learn to steady your emotions and calm your mind first.

I will guide you, step by step, through the 4M System which blends emotional support, mindset coaching, and practical strategies that actually work in real life — no fluff, no overwhelm.

It’s about helping you find your centre, make better decisions, and protect your peace while you rebuild your life.

You’ll leave with lifelong tools to keep your calm, protect your energy, and step confidently into your next chapter — no matter what’s happening around you.

Because I know how vulnerable this moment can feel, I’ve included some truly special bonuses to make sure you feel supported every step of the way — not just during our five weeks together, but long after.

Bonus 1: Three-Month Membership in The Magic Divorce Club (Value £75)

The Magic Divorce Club is a nurturing community of like-minded mums rewriting their stories with strength and grace. LUXE membership includes:

• Weekly Live Support Calls
• Monthly workshops with guest experts
• A library of calming meditations and replays

Sign up by Sunday 9th November to receive the full three months LUXE membership for FREE!

Bonus 2: Calm in Conflict – How to Stay Steady Under Pressure (Value £150)

If you’re scared of confrontation or you’ve ever felt yourself slip into panic and overwhelm from a message from your ex or solicitor, this is for you.

You’ll learn how to find your voice and stay calm, confident, and composed in high-stress moments. 

Includes practises like Protection Before Court or Mediation and 5-Minute SOS Reset to help you recover from triggers and stay centred no matter what.

Bonus 3: Venus Yoga – 6-Week Emotional Healing & Nervous System Reset (Value £95)

If you feel too anxious or tense to focus or rest, this gentle, trauma-informed yoga and guided breathwork course is designed to help you release tension and anxiety from your body, and support deep rest — even if your mind won’t stop racing.

Perfect for those nights when your thoughts won’t quiet down or the mornings when you just need to feel safe in your body again.

Bonus 4: Create the Vision Workshop (Value £59)

This gentle, inspiring workshop helps you reconnect with what’s possible for your life after divorce. 

Together, we’ll create a vision board that anchors your hopes and dreams in something tangible and beautiful — a daily reminder that your future is still full of light.

Bonus 5: 7 Days of Calm to Soothe Divorce Overwhelm (Value £55)

I know the hardest part is often starting when you feel so overwhelmed — which is why I want you to feel relief straight away.

You’ll receive seven 10-minute guided meditations you can listen to anytime — morning, night, or whenever the emotions feel too big.

This will help calm any overwhelm or panic before the course even begins.

Bonus 6: Private 1:1 Mentoring Session with Me (Value £250)

Every woman’s journey is unique, which is why you’ll receive an extra private 1:1 mentoring session with me after the program.
 

We’ll use this time to focus on your specific challenges, strengthen your boundaries, and update your next steps with clarity and confidence.

Limited to the first 20 enrolments — Once those 20 spots are taken, this bonus will disappear from the checkout page.

✨ Over £680 Worth of Bonuses 

Together, these bonuses create a full circle of emotional support, peace, and confidence — helping you feel stronger, calmer, and more secure every single day.

But remember: some of these are only available for a limited time or limited spaces — and once enrolment closes at 9 pm on 13 November, this program won’t reopen until next year.

When you enrol, you’ll receive:
✅ Immediate access to Module 1 + your bonuses
✅ Five weeks of live guided transformation
✅ Your 6-Month Emotional Freedom Plan
✅ Risk-free 14-day guarantee

💫 A Gentle Reminder

Some of these bonuses are only available for a limited time or have limited spaces so if you’re ready to get the support you deserve, act now.

Enrolment closes at 9 pm on 13 November.

This program won’t reopen until next year, so if your heart’s telling you it’s time to start your next chapter, this is your sign to grab this opportunity.

(Enrolment closes at 9pm on Wednesday 13 November. Once we begin, the next live round won’t open until next year.)

💕 Real Stories. Real Calm. Real Transformation.

Every woman who’s joined The 4M System or The Magic Divorce Club started where you might be right now — overwhelmed, anxious, and unsure what comes next.
Here’s what they discovered when they said yes to themselves:

My Story — The Reason Behind the 4M System

Before I taught this work, I had to live it.

I went through a three-year high-conflict, high-stakes divorce involving court, custody, and financial battles. It wasn’t the path I wanted, but I had to protect myself and my children and secure our future.

During that time, I suffered from daily panic attacks, sleepless nights, and constant fear. But when I discovered how to calm my body, reframe my thoughts, and make decisions from a grounded, peaceful place, everything shifted.

The anxiety lifted.
I started showing up calmly, even in the most stressful moments.
And I became the steady, confident mother my children needed.

That transformation became the foundation for the 4M System — and now I’ve helped thousands of women find that same peace, strength, and freedom.